Don't try to do that - even if you get a reference to the instance of item renderer and make modifications to it (addChild or whatever), you'll loose it when the item renderers are recycled. And item renderers are frequently recycled - for example when you scroll the list. If the list has 100 items and only 10 are visible at a given time, only 11 or so instances of item renderers will be created. Those instances will be showed in a cycle - when you scroll, the data in them are updated using the set data
method.
Override the set data
method in the item renderer and do the stuff from there.