While reading a long series of really, really interesting threads, I've come to a realization: I don't think I really know C++. I know C, I know classes, I know inheritance, I know templates (& the STL) and I know exceptions. Not C++. To clarify, I've been writing "C++" for more than 5 years now. I know C, and I know that C and C++ share a common subset.
What I've begun to realize, though, is that more times than not, I wind up treating C++ something vaguely like "C with classes," although I do practice RAII. I've never used Boost, and have only read up on TR1 and C++0x - I haven't used any of these features in practice. I don't use namespaces.
I see a list of #define
s, and I think - "Gracious, that's horrible! Very un-C++-like," only to go and mindlessly write class wrappers for the sake of it, and I wind up with large numbers (maybe a few per class) of static methods, and for some reason, that just doesn't seem right lately.
The professional in me yells "just get the job done," the academic yells "you should write proper C++ when writing C++" and I feel like the point of balance is somewhere in between. I'd like to note that I don't want to program "pure" C++ just for the sake of it.
I know several languages. I have a good feel for what "Pythonic" is. I know what clean and clear PHP is. Good C code I can read and write better than English. The issue is that I learned C by example, and picked up C++ as a "series of modifications" to C. And a lot of my early C++ work was creating class wrappers for C libraries. I feel like my own personal C-heavy background while learning C++ has sort of... clouded my acceptance of C++ in it's own right, as it's own language.
Do the weathered C++ lags here have any advice for me? Good examples of clean, sharp C++ to learn from? What habits of C does my inner-C++ really need to break from? My goal here is not to go forth and trumpet "good" C++ paradigm from rooftops for the sake of it. C and C++ are two different languages, and I want to start treating them that way. How? Where to start?
Update:
Based on the responses thus far, it seems that a few readings were commonly recommended:
The three Scott Meyers books seem popular:
A book (C++ Coding Standards) by Herb Sutter also comes recommended with a reasonable justification.
Along with Beyond the C++ Standard Library: An Introduction to Boost by Björn Karlsson, there were many references directly to the Boost and STL documentation respectively.
A few folks mentioned taking background information right from the horses mouth. The C++ FAQ Lite was brought up - and seems to be a great resource to either read as a learning tool, and as a quick reference guide. Another great suggestion was to follow by the example of our resident SO pundits by perusing the C++ Leaderboard.
Based on votes (there were many great answers) I'm going to accept the answer of Brian R. Bondy.