Short answer: Use Message selector.
Detail answer:
The question doesn't mention about how conversation is initiated. So here my answers for both scenarios.
a) If client initiates the conversation (i.e. Client sends a message to server and waiting for a reply).
This is a request/reply scenario. Messaging/JMS is a decoupled communication system. But request/reply is a common pattern in JMS. It can be implemented using correlation pattern.
- A unique identifier(correlation id) is sent part of the request message.
- Server receives the message and sets the correlation id in the reply message.
- Client uses Message selector to receive the message with the correct correlation id.
b) If server initiates the conversation (i.e. Server sends messages to the clients without client request).
In this case, similar approach can be used.
- A fixed client id is assigned to each client.
- Server maintains all client ids and sets client id of the recipient as correlation id of the message.
- Client uses Message selector to receive the message which has correlation id equals to its client id.
Update about confidentiality.
Following info extracted from this link useful for you to understand JMS security.
JMS does not specify a security
contract or an API for controlling
message confidentiality and integrity.
Security is considered to be a
JMS-provider-specific feature. It is
controlled by a System Administrator
rather than implemented
programmatically or by the J2EE server
runtime.
Two major features of JMS security are Authentication and Authorization. According to my knowledge, JMS security for client access is focusing on protecting the JMS destinations (not the individual messages). As long as a client has access to a destination, the security role assigned to the client is applicable for all the messages belongs to the destination.
Based on this,
Solution 1: If the client code is controlled by a trusted party.
Follow my solutions in my original answer.
This will make sure the message is delivered to the right person. But will not protect anything if the client code is purposely modified to receive all messages.
Solution 2: Assign private destination and user account to each client and configure security such that user account of a client can access only its destination.
Note: Found a link about "Restrictions for message selectors to provide message level authorization". But I think it is a vendor specific custom feature.
Hope this will be helpful.