ok here is my php and mysql code:
where it is bold i wanted to the the uid from the online table and if it in there
where online.uid = '' i needed so it put the uid in there.
$sql = ("select accounts.id,
accounts.tgid,
accounts.lastactivity,
cometchat_status.message,
cometchat_status.status,
**online.uid**
from friends_list join accounts
on friends_list.fid = accounts.id
left join cometchat_status
on accounts.id = cometchat_status.userid
where friends_list.status = '1'
and **online.uid = ''**
and friends_list.uid = '".mysql_real_escape_string($userid)."'
order by tgid asc");