SQL Server doesn't support the "SELECT FOR UPDATE" syntax, which is used by NHibernate for pessimistic locking. I read here on StackOverflow descriptions of other alternatives (I liked the "SELECT WITH (...)" because it's quite close).
however NHibernate doesn't seem to support this syntax.
do you have a workaround for this? I believe this can be achieved by tinkering with NHibernate internals, but that's not cost effective for me at the moment (learning curve). I could also perhaps use a stored procedure with application locks, and access that from NHibernate. any other suggestions? (aside from always reading before writing...)