Ok, If you can answer this question, you deserve the nobel peace prize. Anyways, here's the situation.
I'm using Slicehost dot net, and I have 2 slices (two different IPs). One slice is my mail server and the other is my normal website. I'm running Ubuntu (8.04 or 8.10, something like that, it shouldn't matter). What I'm trying to do is access the MySQL database on the Mail server from the other slice. I'm trying to do that with PHP. I really appreciate any help.