One of the reasons people do Persistance Ignorant objects (POCO) is to avoid such a scenario. There is simply no way for the data access layer to have a reference to a class that it doesn't know about - it is much better to have the class not know about the data access.
The only way you can really do this is to implement Get() on User instead of on UserDA. You can do something like this:
public class User {
IGetFromPresistance<User> _userFetcher;
public static IList<User> GetMatching(Specification<User> spec) {
var values = _userFetcher.Find(spec); //Returns a DataRow or IDictionary<string, object>
return new User() {
PhoneNumber = new PhoneNumber(values["phone"].ToString()),
Name = values["name"].ToString(),
};
}
}