There's no way to pick off any particular argument without examining the entire command line. The reason for this is bash's underlying assumption that any option can appear in any order, without regard to relative position on the command line. The other premise is that any option specified in the man pages in either short or long format (i.e., "-f" or "--file") will have valid, recognized use in the the execution of the command.
Your best bet is to use the example provided by DigitalRoss and either code a value for the case statement for every valid option for the command, or code for just the one(s) you want to deal with in your script and capture everything else with the "*)" construct and disregard it if it falls into that test. The trick is that if a particular option has more than one valid argument, you need to know in advance if the distinction between the arguments is positional or pattern matching based on the content of the argument. You'll also need to use the "skip" directive in order to move from one argument to the next for options with multiple arguments.