If able to use 3rd-party tools, I'd leverage one of the 3rd-party, pre-written helpers you can call from your script (doalarm and timeout are both mentioned by the BashFAQ entry on the subject).
If writing such a thing myself without using such tools, I'd probably do something like the following:
function try_proper_shutdown() {
su oracle -c "lsnrctl stop >/dev/null"
su oracle -c "sqlplus sys/passwd as sysdba @/usr/local/PLATEX/scripts/orastop.sql >/dev/null"
}
function resort_to_harsh_shutdown() {
for progname in ora_this ora_that ; do
killall -9 $progname
done
# also need to do a bunch of cleanup with ipcs/ipcrm here
}
# here's where we start the proper shutdown approach in the background
try_proper_shutdown &
child_pid=$!
# rather than keeping a counter, we check against the actual clock each cycle
# this prevents the script from running too long if it gets delayed somewhere
# other than sleep (or if the sleep commands don't actually sleep only the
# requested time -- they don't guarantee that they will).
end_time=$(( $(date '+%s') + (60 * 5) ))
while (( $(date '+%s') < end_time )); do
if kill -0 $child_pid 2>/dev/null; then
exit 0
fi
sleep 1
done
# okay, we timed out; stop the background process that's trying to shut down nicely
# (note that alone, this won't necessarily kill its children, just the subshell we
# forked off) and then make things happen.
kill $child_pid
resort_to_harsh_shutdown