Look at the stackoverflow source when you get one of those. Turn your cookies off to get the "first time" message, if you want an easy way. The page references:
http://sstatic.net/so/js/master.js?v=4700
And there's a bit of script that calls
<script type="text/javascript">
$(function() { notify.showFirstTime(); });
</script>
That's the script that does it. Go into that master.js file and find that method.
Chris Farmer
2009-10-06 20:52:52