Extensions work on instances, not for creating static methods. You can extend the base Enum using public static void MyExtensions(this Enum value). But this would still only create methods on Enum instances you create. The only way to add static methods like you're talking about externally for a class is if the class is a partial class.
Edit: to do something like you want I wrote the following
public static bool IsFlagSet<T>(this Enum value, Enum flag)
{
if (!typeof(T).IsEnum) throw new ArgumentException();
if (value == flag) return true;
return ((int)Enum.Parse(typeof(T), value.ToString()) &
(int)Enum.Parse(typeof(T), flag.ToString())) != 0;
}
*warning, this method needs to be thought out more prior to use, I'm hoping there is a better way to do it.