if I understood your question correctly you would like to do following:
1. hide the current date selection
2. make focus rectangle to be set on the selected date when calendar control pops up (or I guess get rid of it)
N1 is easy; you should set IsTodayHighlighted property of the DatePicker to false and it would disappear
N2 is a little trickier. There might be an easier way for fixing this but here's what working for me: DatePicker moves focus to the calendar control right after showing it by calling
calendar.MoveFocus(new TraversalRequest(FocusNavigationDirection.First));
this makes focus rectangle to be shown on the first day of the month; you can fix it by forcing calendar to move focus to the selected date; below is an CalendarOpened event handler for the DatePicker control (datePicker1 in my case). I'm using reflection to access private field _calendar of the datapicker control and execute its private method FocusDate
private void datePicker1_CalendarOpened(object sender, RoutedEventArgs e)
{
FieldInfo fieldInfo0 = datePicker1.GetType().GetField(
"_calendar", BindingFlags.Instance | BindingFlags.NonPublic);
Microsoft.Windows.Controls.Calendar calendar =
(Microsoft.Windows.Controls.Calendar)fieldInfo0.GetValue(datePicker1);
if (calendar != null)
{
MethodInfo focusDateInfo = calendar.GetType().GetMethod("FocusDate", BindingFlags.Instance | BindingFlags.NonPublic);
focusDateInfo.Invoke(calendar, new object[] { datePicker1.SelectedDate });
}
}
this would make calendar control look cleaner when it pops up; but would still show focus rectangle on the first day of the month if user would start selecting different months
hope this helps,
regards