In your ItemUpdating event handler, make sure of the following things:
-If you are not using optimistic concurrency checking, remove any old values the FormView may be placing in the OldValues collection.
-Make sure that all of the parameters required by your stored procedure, query, or data source have values and are named correctly in either the Keys or NewValues collections (and make sure that no duplicates exist).
In some cases (usually when an ObjectDataSource is involved), I've had to override the values set by the FormView control, by doing something like this:
protected void myFormView_ItemUpdating(object sender, FormViewUpdateEventArgs e)
{
// remove the old values
e.Keys.Clear();
e.OldValues.Clear();
e.NewValues.Clear();
// set the parameter for the key
e.Keys.Add("@key", valueGoesHere);
// set other parameters
e.NewValues.Add("@param1", aValue);
e.NewValues.Add("@param2", anotherValue);
}
It's not pretty, but it give you absolute control over what gets passed to the DataSource. Generally you should not have to do this if the controls in your FormView are all bound using Bind() for two-way databinding (instead of Eval), but at the very least you could put a break point in ItemUpdating and open up the e.Keys, e.OldValues, and e.NewValues collections to see if the contents are what you expected.
A next step would be to launch SQL Server Profiler to run a trace and examine the actual query being performed.