Tables aliases should be four things:
- Short
- Meaningful
- Always used
- Used consistently
For example if you had tables named service_request, service_provider, user, and affiliate (among many others) a good practice would be to alias those tables as "sr", "sp", "u", and "a", and do so in every query possible. This is especially convenient if, as is often the case, these aliases coincide with acronyms used by your organization. So if "SR" and "SP" are the accepted terms for Service Request and Service Provider respectively, the aliases above carry a double payload of intuitively standing in for both the table and the business object it represents.
The obvious flaws with this system are first that it can be awkward for table names with lots of "words" e.g. a_long_multi_word_table_name which would alias to almwtn or something, and that it's likely you'll end up with tables named such that they abbreviate the same. The first flaw can be dealt with however you like, such as by taking the last 3 or 4 letters, or whichever subset you feel is most representative, most unique, or easiest to type. The second I've found in practice isn't as troublesome as it might seem, perhaps just by luck. You can also do things like take the second letter of a "word" in the table as well, such as aliasing account_transaction to "atr" instead of "at" to avoid conflicting with account_type.
Of course whether you use the above approach or not, aliases should be short because you'll be typing them very very frequently, and they should always be used because once you've written a query against a single table and omitted the alias, it's inevitable that you'll later need to edit in a second table with duplicate column names.