Consider the following example
\begin{equation}
\begin{split}
f = & \left( \frac{a}{b} + \right. \\
& \left. c \right) + d
\end{split}
\end{equation}
In the result, the left parenthesis on the first line is very large, because of the fraction inside. In the second line, since there is no fraction, the parenthesis is small. How can I make the one on the second line match the one on the first line in height.