My vote is for Telerik. The controls are great for Rapid Application Development. They have the widest selection across the widest platforms; ASP.NET, ASP.NET MVC, WPF, Winforms, Silverlight.
I wouldn't recommend any 3rd party controls for performance critical or enterprise apps UNLESS you need a majority of the features that each controls comes with - any many come with oodles and oodles of features. As others have stated some controls are really bloated (particularly ASP.NET) and perform badly against simpler, customised implementations.
If you do go with Telerik bear in mind that their documentation is really really bad, so spending a few extra pounds on a support package is well worth it. Their suppport team usually answer within a day. Send them a repro environment and they'll generally fix it for you too :-)
HTH,
Mark