The Coldfusion datetime variable you retrieved from your database has all the information you are requesting. Coldfusion will automatically convert it to a variety of outputs depending on your need using some built in functions.
<!--- Assuming that 'myDateTime' is a datetime variable retrieved from cfquery --->
<cfoutput>
<!--- Outputs: 1/7/2010 --->
#dateFormat(myDateTime, "m/d/yyyy")#
<!--- or use a mask shortcut - only outputs two digit year: 1/7/10 --->
#DateFormat(myDateTime, "short")#
<!--- Outputs: 8:47:14 AM --->
#timeFormat(myDateTime, "h:mm:ss tt")#
<!--- or use the shortcut: --->
#TimeFormat(myDateTime, "medium")#
</cfoutput>
If you must construct a single string with the TOAD format, then you may concatenate the output of the dateFormat() and timeFormat() strings.
<!--- Outputs: '1/7/2010 8:47:14 AM' --->
<cfset toadFormat = dateFormat(myDateTime, "m/d/yyyy") & " " & TimeFormat(myDateTime, "medium")>
This saves a bit of hassle if you'll be using this data many times. However for most needs this is unnecessary as the original myDateTime variable contains all the information needed for all purposes other than display output.
More about DateFormat() and TimeFormat() from Adobe. More about DateFormat and TimeFormat shortcuts from Pete Freitag.