If I read your question correctly you want the same menu in all your Activities. I can think of two ways to do this:
Create a subclass of Activity that implements onCreateOptionsMenu() and onOptionsItemSelected() (and possibly onPrepareOptionsMenu). Then have all your Activity classes extend this subclass.
Create a static method somewhere called something like populateOptionsMenu() that takes a Menu (and probably a Context) as arguments. Your Activity classes can then call this from their onCreateOptionsMenu() methods to populate the Menu. You'd also need a corresponding processItemSelected() static method for when items were clicked.
Option 1 seems best as it wouldn't require the same bolierplate in your Activities to call the static methods.