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My boyfriend does coding (Rails/C?/PHP) for a job and I don't know what he would appreciate on our first anniversary. Does anyone have any ideas? Yes, he's stereotypical geek, but I'd rather not give a pack of Bawls for an anniversary gift.

He dislikes going anywhere, so "experiences" like going to an event are out. Maybe I should just have a giant LAN party in the house.

+3  A: 

Check out ThinkGeek for nerdy gift ideas.

sheepsimulator
+1  A: 

i would say anything remotely sexual should do. Oh, by the way, this is a non-programming related question so you shouldn't really be asking.

pixeline
to those downvoting my reply. It's really the question you should downvote if you actually followed the rules on SO, and have this question posted to a non-programming forum. Oh, and maybe get yourself an upgrade in sense of humour.
pixeline
'fraid I was already thinking of something in LaTeX
High Performance Mark
+1 agreed on all counts
rjh
Was going to vote this up back to 0, but with a 6 up / 7 down vote split you have still gained rep :)
slugster
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I don't know about other programmers here, but one thing for sure is that I wouldn't buy him a gift that will get him more glued up to the gift than the provider of the gift.

Take him to see a play or something that will get his mind out of coding too much, that way you both have a chance to mingle with each other.

Or am I off-course?

The Elite Gentleman
Agreed. Something geeky may be appreciated in the short-term, but something a little different (as long as it doesn't push the recipient way out of their comfort zone) will likely be fondly remembered for a long time to come.
Cal Jacobson
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The first anniversary is the "Paper Gift" year.

A book that is programming related, but not all about code would be a good idea. I would recommend Coders At Work.

Another popular gift for the first year is a framed picture. I cannot think of a good idea to make that Programming-related, but you could try to come up with something.

Kevin Crowell