Í don't have access to an IDE to try it out (holdays...), but I'd try using the FindAncestor mode, like this:
RelativeSource={RelativeSource FindAncestor, AncestorType={x:Type PrivateMessengerUI:GroupContainer}}
This should go up the logical tree to find the group container.
Timores
2010-04-04 12:57:17