I haven't used the WPF Toolkit's DataGrid much, but from what I can gather, one method is to use DataGridTemplateColumn's and then set up your DataTriggers based on the binding.
Here is an example that uses DataTriggers to set the style of the Foreground color as well the entire row's background color. Of note, you'll need a boolean Property in your ItemsSource's binding to make this work with this method.
XAML
<Window.Resources>
<Style TargetType="{x:Type tk:DataGridRow}">
<Style.Triggers>
<DataTrigger
Binding="{Binding Path=IsSelected}" Value="True">
<Setter Property="Background" Value="Yellow" />
</DataTrigger>
</Style.Triggers>
</Style>
<Style TargetType="{x:Type TextBlock}" x:Key="MyTextBlockStyle">
<Style.Triggers>
<DataTrigger
Binding="{Binding Path=IsSelected}" Value="True">
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="Blue" />
</DataTrigger>
<DataTrigger
Binding="{Binding Path=IsSelected}" Value="False">
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="Red" />
</DataTrigger>
</Style.Triggers>
</Style>
</Window.Resources>
<Grid>
<tk:DataGrid x:Name="MyGrid"
AutoGenerateColumns="False"
ItemsSource="{Binding}">
<tk:DataGrid.Columns>
<tk:DataGridTemplateColumn Header="Selected"
Width="75">
<tk:DataGridTemplateColumn.CellTemplate>
<DataTemplate>
<CheckBox IsChecked="{Binding Path=IsSelected}"/>
</DataTemplate>
</tk:DataGridTemplateColumn.CellTemplate>
</tk:DataGridTemplateColumn>
<tk:DataGridTemplateColumn Header="Name" Width="100" >
<tk:DataGridTemplateColumn.CellTemplate>
<DataTemplate>
<TextBlock Text="{Binding Path=Name}"
Style="{StaticResource MyTextBlockStyle}" />
</DataTemplate>
</tk:DataGridTemplateColumn.CellTemplate>
</tk:DataGridTemplateColumn>
</tk:DataGrid.Columns>
</tk:DataGrid>
</Grid>
Code Behind
public partial class DataGridDataTrigger : Window
{
public List<Person> People { get; set; }
public DataGridDataTrigger()
{
InitializeComponent();
var names = new List<string> { "Joe", "Bob", "Frank", "Scott", "Mike" };
People = new List<Person>();
names.ForEach( x => People.Add( new Person { Name = x } ) );
People.ForEach( x =>
{
if( x.Name.Contains( "o" ) )
x.IsSelected = true;
} );
MyGrid.DataContext = People;
}
}
public class Person
{
public string Name { get; set; }
public bool IsSelected { get; set; }
}