i havent used the jQ validation myself, however when i do my very basic javascript side validation, i reference the form, and check for a submitted value, for example, say we had a form with and id of myform and then your javascript code would look like:
<form id="myform" method="post" action="...">
<!-- fields go here -->
</form>
//reference the form
var myform = $('form#myform');
// Setup your validation functions here
// Run validation only on submit of the form, returning success or failure.
form.submit(function()) {
if(function_1() & function_2()...) {
return true;
else
return false;
});
That way the validation code only runs when that particular form is submitted.
Hope that helps :)