Some of the main issues with mobile synchronization of personal information are the battery life of the handset and the temporary loss of connectivity.
That's why the usual way of doing what you describe is to have a server handle most of the complicated logic and multiple data sources to create the set of data to be synchronized and then have a proprietary protocol between the server and the client to mirror just that set of data.
In effect, connection to the server will always be initiated by the client, no matter how much people talk about "push" e-mail. Your client application can have a user option to make the phone stay online as much as the network conditions allow. The server can react to a connection being established by automatically sending the latest data it needs synchronized with the client.