You can store the original order in an array, and when inserting back, determine what's the latest element in the array that precedes the one to be inserted AND matches what's currently in the select list. Then insert after that.
A better solution is to just store the old array whole and re-populate on every insertion with desired elements as follows (warning: code not tested)
function init(selectId) {
var s = document.getElementById(selectId);
select_defaults[selectId] = new Array();
select_on[selectId] = new Array();
for (var i = 0; i < s.options.length; i++) {
select_defaults[selectId][i] = s.options[i];
select_on[selectId][i] = 1;
var value = list.options[i].value;
select_map_values[selectId][value] = i if you wish to add/remove by value.
var id = list.options[i].id; // if ID is defined for all options
select_map_ids[selectId][id] = i if you wish to add/remove by id.
}
}
function switch(selectId, num, id, value, to_add) { // You can pass number, value or id
if (num == null) {
if (id != null) {
num = select_map_ids[selectId][id]; // check if empty?
} else {
num = select_map_values[selectId][value]; // check if empty?
}
}
var old = select_on[selectId][num];
var new = (to_add) : 1 : 0;
if (old != new) {
select_on[selectId][num] = new;
redraw(selectId);
}
}
function add(selectId, num, id, value) {
switch(selectId, num, id, value, 1);
}
function remove(selectId, num, id, value) {
switch(selectId, num, id, value, 0);
}
function redraw(selectId) {
var s = document.getElementById(selectId);
s.options.length = 0; // empty out
var next = 0;
for (var i = 0; i < select_on[selectId].length; i++) {
// can use global "initial_length" stored in init() instead of select_on[selectId].length
if (select_on[selectId][i] == 1) {
s.options[next] = select_defaults[selectId][i];
next++;
}
}
}