I think the reason that I'm a little confused by this question is that technically it's actually a many-to-many relationship, not really a one-to-many. Grails will create a join table ("a_b") for this relationship (because B doesn't have a belongsTo relationship to A).
The way you have your A domain constructed the hasMany relationship is a set, so B will only appear a single time in the "bs" collection. So, I believe, all you're asking is how many As have a B.
If thats true, you can use HQL to answer your question (you can also use criteria builders, but I prefer hql). Here's an example (using the build-test-data plugin to construct objects with buildLazy and adding a String name to A):
def a1 = A.buildLazy(name: "one")
def a2 = A.buildLazy(name: "two")
def a3 = A.buildLazy(name: "three")
def a4 = A.buildLazy(name: "four")
def b1 = B.buildLazy(code: 888)
def b2 = B.buildLazy(code: 999)
a1.addToBs(b1)
a2.addToBs(b1)
a3.addToBs(b1)
a4.addToBs(b1)
a1.addToBs(b2)
println "Number of As that have each B = " +
A.executeQuery("select count(b), b.code from A as a join a.bs as b group by b.code")
println "Number of As with a specific B = " +
A.executeQuery("select count(*) from A as a join a.bs as b where b = :b", [b: b1])
results in:
Number of As that have each B = [[1, 999], [4, 888]]
Number of As with a specific B = [4]