I basically have the same problem in this questions:
Flash Video still playing in hidden div
I've used the .remove jquery call and this works. However, I have previous/next buttons when a user scrolls through hidden/non-hidden divs. What I need to know is, once I remove the flash object, is there a way to get it back other than refreshing the page?
Basically, can this be handled client side or am I going to need to implement some server side handling.
detach() won't work because the flash video continues to play.
I can't just hide it because the video continues to play as well.