This is an end user configuration for console windows. Click on the title bar icon, select properties, on the options tab, uncheck QuickEdit mode.
However copy & past is in fact simpler in QuickEdit mode: Right click performs an immediate paste operation if there is text in the clipboard. Text is copied by highlighting by dragging over the text to be copied, and pressing "Enter" to place the text in the clipboard. Switching off QuickEdit us useful for console programs that consume mouse events directly.
I am not sure that there is a programmatic method of switching the edit mode, but since it is by design an end user preference, it would probably be bad form to impose your own preference.