You're making a classic mistake: confusing RDF (which is what SPARQL queries) with (one of) its serialisation, namely RDF/XML. rdf:about (and rdf:ID, rdf:Description, rdf:resource) are part of RDF/XML, a way RDF is written down. You can play around with the RDF Validator to see what RDF triples result from a piece of RDF/XML.
In your case let's start with:
<?xml version="1.0"?>
<rdf:RDF 
   xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#"
   xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/terms/">
  <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.example.org/">
    <dc:title>Example for Donal Fellows</dc:title> 
  </rdf:Description>
</rdf:RDF>
Plug that into the validator and you get:
Number      Subject                      Predicate                        Object
1           http://www.example.org/      http://purl.org/dc/terms/title   "Example for Donal Fellows"
(you can also ask for a pictorial representation)
Notice that rdf:about is not present: its value provides the subject for the triple.
How do I do a query to find properties associated with http://www.example.org? Like this:
select * {
    <http://www.example.org/> ?predicate ?object
}
You'll get:
?predicate                        ?object
<http://purl.org/dc/terms/title>  "Example for Donal Fellows"
You'll notice that the query is a triple match with variables (?v) in places where we want to find values. We could also ask what predicate links http://www.example.org/ with "Example for..." by asking:
select * {
    <http://www.example.org/> ?predicate "Example for Donal Fellows"
}
This pattern matching is the heart of SPARQL.
RDF/XML is a tricky beast, and you might find it easier to work with N-Triples, which is very verbose but clear, or turtle, which is like N-Triples with a large number of shorthands and abbreviations. Turtle is often preferred by the rdf community.
P.S. rdfs:about doesn't exist anywhere.