Posting as an answer by request:
If you have to generate a binary that will work with an ABI your compiler doesn't support, you're in for some trouble. There's nothing you can do in C. In this case, you'll need to fall back on assembly language programming and thunk the necessary calls. There are two possibilities:
- Calls from your binary into the other binary's ABI.
- Calls from the other binary into your binary's ABI.
Both of these problems are solved similarly. To call out from your code, you'll need to make shim functions in assembly that swizzle around the calling convention to match the external ABI, and then call the external functions from there. The difference to your C code is that now to make external calls, you call your internal assembly routine, and it does whatever it needs to to call out externally, then puts the return value back in a format your C code will understand, and returns.
To support calls from the external binary into your code, you do the same thing, but in reverse. The entry points to your binary will be little assembly routines that swizzle the external ABI into a format your C code can understand, call your internal function, then put the return values back into a format the external code understands, and return.
Sometimes there's just no good solution, I'm afraid.