When you hit a roof on reading from a database, you have two choices, scale vertically by putting more hardware in the server, or scale horizontally by putting a second server to help offload the reads.
Offloading reads to a second server, means that all writes will hit both servers, while read only hits one.
Problem is when you hit a roof with writing, since writing has to happen to all servers, it means that all servers will be overloaded with write requests, and the server comes unusable. Adding more servers to the problem doesn't help, since it only adds more servers that will be overloaded. So you have to scale vertically.
Is this something that is specific to RDBMS'? or is it something that happens with all DBMS'?
I know you can do things on software side, and split the database in two, eg. all entries starting with 0-m in one db while n-z in another, but IMHO it is more of a workaround than a solution to the problem.