mailing system DB structure, need help

Question

i have a system there user(sender) can write a note to friends(receivers), number of receivers>=0. Text of the message is saved in DB and visible to sender and all receivers then they login to system. Sender can add more receivers at any time. More over any of receivers can edit the message and even remove it from DB. For this system i created 3 tables, shortly:

users(userID, username, password)
messages(messageID, text)
list(id, senderID, receiverID, messageID)

in table "list" each row corresponds to pair sender-receiver, like

sender_x_ID -- receiver_1_ID -- message_1_ID
sender_x_ID -- receiver_2_ID -- message_1_ID
sender_x_ID -- receiver_3_ID -- message_1_ID

Now the problem is:
1. if user deletes the message from table "messages" how to automatically delete all rows from table "list" which correspond to deleted message. Do i have to include some foreign keys?

More important:
2. if sender has let say 3 receivers for his message1 (username1, username2 and username3) and at certain moment decides to add username4 and username5 and at the same time exclude username1 from the list of receivers. PHP code will get the new list of receivers (username2, username3, username4, username5) That means insert to table "list"

sender_x_ID -- receiver_4_ID -- message_1_ID
sender_x_ID -- receiver_5_ID -- message_1_ID

and also delete from table "list" the row corresponding to user1 (which is not in the list or receivers any more)

sender_x_ID -- receiver_1_ID -- message_1_ID

which sql query to send from PHP to make it in an easy and intelligent way? Please help! Examples of sql queries would be perfect!

Answer 1

Your first problem is easy. You could do it by setting a forign key on list. You'd set it up to CASCADE updates and deletes (so that DELETE FROM messages WHERE messageID = 5 would automatically delete all rows in list where messageID = 5 as well. You'd need to use InnoDB as the storage engine for this to work...

For the second problem, that's easy as well. Just insert the new rows in one query:

INSERT INTO list (senderID, receiverID, messageID)
VALUES (sender_x_id, receiver_4_id, message_1_id),
       (sender_x_id, receiver_5_id, message_1_id);

And then remove the others in another:

DELETE FROM list
WHERE receiverID = receiver_1_id
  AND messageID = message_1_id