There is a way to do it, you should read the documentation of the plugin.
Read it from the link here
Here is how to do it.
Use the invalidHandler.
$(".selector").validate({
invalidHandler: function(form, validator) {
var errors = validator.numberOfInvalids();
if (errors) {
var message = errors == 1
? 'You missed 1 field. It has been highlighted'
: 'You missed ' + errors + ' fields. They have been highlighted';
/* .... put here the call to a custom function to display validation error */
customvalidationdisplay(message,"show");
} else {
/* ... put here the call to a custom function to hide validation error if displayed */
customvalidationdisplay("hide");
}
}
});
function customvalidationdisplay(message,action){
/* write here your custom script to display the error if action = "show" or hide if action = "hide" */
}
I hope you have understood this by now. If not, feel free to ask me for more information.