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Well... Recently I developed a comment system similar to your desired one. I'll try to explain how I achieved that. (and you should be able to work reviews/anything else out from that one too).
Main site keeps variables such as: current used component (say module/plugin/whatever), loaded item identificator (if any).
Then there's this comments class, it's loaded by default, but runs only it's function, let's say check, which checks if current loaded component @ identificator has comments enabled or not (MySQL stores it for me). If yes, then you build that comments form.
#example (component) table:
id (item_identificator) | comments | title | content | author | timestamp | <etc.>
My comments table then stores form variables along with component and item_identificator.
#comments table:
id | component (in this case - "example") | item_identificator | comment | author | timestamp | <etc.>
And, to show those comments you just load comments from database where component and item_identificator is equal with current used.
I hope you understood! And because you haven't specified any language tags, I allowed myself to write about PHP and MySQL.
If you got any questions, feel free to ask.
EDIT
Just read what Disqus is, well... This won't be cross site. :(