I'm not sure what you're doing wrong, but here is an example of a Button being controlled both by a BindingParameter and a CanExecute Flag. Perhaps your binding parameter isn't a DependencyProperty, and therefore, when it changes the Button isn't being notified.
<UserControl x:Class="SilverlightICommandTest.MainPage"
xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
xmlns:d="http://schemas.microsoft.com/expression/blend/2008"
xmlns:mc="http://schemas.openxmlformats.org/markup-compatibility/2006"
xmlns:ct="clr-namespace:SilverlightICommandTest"
mc:Ignorable="d"
d:DesignHeight="300" d:DesignWidth="400">
<UserControl.Resources>
<ct:TestModel x:Key="Model" />
</UserControl.Resources>
<StackPanel x:Name="LayoutRoot" Orientation="Vertical" Background="White" DataContext="{StaticResource Model}">
<CheckBox Content="Enable" IsChecked="{Binding TestCmd.CanDoCommand, Mode=TwoWay}" />
<Grid HorizontalAlignment="Stretch">
<Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<ColumnDefinition Width="Auto" />
<ColumnDefinition />
</Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<TextBlock Text="{Binding ElementName=testSlider, Path=Value}" Width="40" Grid.Column="0" />
<Slider Name="testSlider" Minimum="0" Maximum="100" SmallChange="1" Grid.Column="1" />
</Grid>
<Button Command="{Binding TestCmd}" CommandParameter="{Binding ElementName=testSlider, Path=Value}" Content="Do Something" />
</StackPanel>
</UserControl>
And the code file:
using System;
using System.Windows;
using System.Windows.Controls;
using System.Windows.Input;
namespace SilverlightICommandTest
{
public partial class MainPage : UserControl
{
public MainPage()
{
InitializeComponent();
}
}
public class TestModel : DependencyObject
{
TestCommand _testCmd = new TestCommand();
public TestCommand TestCmd { get { return _testCmd; } }
public TestModel()
{
}
}
public class TestCommand : DependencyObject, ICommand
{
public static readonly DependencyProperty CanDoCommandProperty = DependencyProperty.Register("CanDoCommand", typeof(Boolean), typeof(TestCommand), new PropertyMetadata(false, new PropertyChangedCallback(CanDoCommandChanged)));
public Boolean CanDoCommand
{
get { return (Boolean)GetValue(CanDoCommandProperty); }
set { SetValue(CanDoCommandProperty, value); }
}
public event EventHandler CanExecuteChanged;
public TestCommand()
{
}
public Boolean CanExecute(Object parameter)
{
return this.CanDoCommand && (((Int32)(Double)parameter) % 2 == 0);
}
public void Execute(Object parameter)
{
MessageBox.Show("Oh Hai!");
}
private void OnCanDoCommandChanged(DependencyPropertyChangedEventArgs args)
{
if (this.CanExecuteChanged != null)
{
this.CanExecuteChanged(this, new EventArgs());
}
}
private static void CanDoCommandChanged(DependencyObject sender, DependencyPropertyChangedEventArgs args)
{
((TestCommand)sender).OnCanDoCommandChanged(args);
}
}
}
In the future I recommend doing a little more research on the pattern first (http://www.silverlightshow.net/items/Model-View-ViewModel-in-Silverlight.aspx), and if you still can't figure it out, post more of your source code.