I want to write a new application that will use a DBMS. In the design stages of this application and weighing the options I found out that the there will be a lot of database accessing which means many queries. My biggest concern with developing this system is the unwieldy nature of SQL select, update, and delete statements scattered around in the code. Are there any language syntax extensions (or scripting languages) beyond Linq (which I don't like because of the awkward syntax) that are available today? I am well acquainted with Progress ABL (their 4GL whatever) for development and I love the syntax it has but its deployment model and dependencies for my type of application are to heavy and costly.
The system I'm requesting must be compatible with either PHP or C#.
The Database Management Systems that I'm considering to use are SQLite, MySQL, or MSSQL (Compact or Standard).