From a trusted computer engineer and Rapidshare, it seems that its possible to get your real IP address when you're proxied. Note that I define proxied I mean using some kind of tunneling (VPN, SSH, etc) to another computer that does not share your IP address. I do NOT mean proxy sites, since with some trivial Javascript and some server side code you can get the IP address easily.
My question though is how? The computer engineer I mentioned said that you could just ask the browser directly (presumably with JS) and it would cough up your real IP. He also mentioned using a tracking image, although I don't think that will work since thats requested by the proxy, not you directly.