Create an Interface IControlMyForm
Add a method called DisableCutCopyPaste
Add a method called EnableCutCopyPaste
Have the form implement the Interface.
Create a UI_Controller class
Create a property of type IControlMyForm
Create a disable and a enable method for the Cut Copy Paste button
On startup creat an instance of UI_Controller
On startup have the Form set itself to the property.
Using the OnFocus event (or Click, etc) of the various control have a call to the right method of the UI_Controller Class.
This is overkill if all you are doing is enabling and disabling cut copy and paste. But if your form is that complex then you would be better off defining a interface and putting some of the more complex interactions (whatever they are) in a UI_Controller class. This way you clearly see what doing what. Also refactoring your form becomes a lot easier.
If you feel this is overkill then just create a EnableCutCopyPaste routine and a DisableCutCopyPaste routine and place the calls in the OnFocus event (or Click, etc).