In the answer to this question lies your solution, only in Javascript...
http://stackoverflow.com/questions/1507931/generate-lighter-darker-color-in-css-using-javascript
I'm not going to write it out, but a simple Google search for 'lighten hex colour php' yields:
function colourBrightness($hex, $percent) {
 // Work out if hash given
 $hash = '';
 if (stristr($hex,'#')) {
  $hex = str_replace('#','',$hex);
  $hash = '#';
 }
 /// HEX TO RGB
 $rgb = array(hexdec(substr($hex,0,2)), hexdec(substr($hex,2,2)), hexdec(substr($hex,4,2)));
 //// CALCULATE
 for ($i=0; $i<3; $i++) {
  // See if brighter or darker
  if ($percent > 0) {
   // Lighter
   $rgb[$i] = round($rgb[$i] * $percent) + round(255 * (1-$percent));
  } else {
   // Darker
   $positivePercent = $percent - ($percent*2);
   $rgb[$i] = round($rgb[$i] * $positivePercent) + round(0 * (1-$positivePercent));
  }
  // In case rounding up causes us to go to 256
  if ($rgb[$i] > 255) {
   $rgb[$i] = 255;
  }
 }
 //// RBG to Hex
 $hex = '';
 for($i=0; $i < 3; $i++) {
  // Convert the decimal digit to hex
  $hexDigit = dechex($rgb[$i]);
  // Add a leading zero if necessary
  if(strlen($hexDigit) == 1) {
  $hexDigit = "0" . $hexDigit;
  }
  // Append to the hex string
  $hex .= $hexDigit;
 }
 return $hash.$hex;
}
http://lab.pxwebdesign.com.au/?p=14
Your Google is just as good as mine!