Have you tried beforeUnload?
This event fires immediately before the page responds to a navigation request, and this should include the modification of the href.
<!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD HTML 3.2 Final//EN">
<HTML>
<HEAD>
<TITLE></TITLE>
<META NAME="Generator" CONTENT="TextPad 4.6">
<META NAME="Author" CONTENT="?">
<META NAME="Keywords" CONTENT="?">
<META NAME="Description" CONTENT="?">
</HEAD>
<script src="http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jquery/1.3/jquery.min.js" type="text/javascript"></script>
<script type="text/javascript">
$(document).ready(function(){
$(window).unload(
function(event) {
alert("navigating");
}
);
$("#theButton").click(
function(event){
alert("Starting navigation");
window.location.href = "http://www.bbc.co.uk";
}
);
});
</script>
<BODY BGCOLOR="#FFFFFF" TEXT="#000000" LINK="#FF0000" VLINK="#800000" ALINK="#FF00FF" BACKGROUND="?">
<button id="theButton">Click to navigate</button>
<a href="http://www.google.co.uk"> Google</a>
</BODY>
</HTML>
Beware, however, that your event will fire whenever you navigate away from the page, whether this is because of the script, or somebody clicking on a link.
Your real challenge, is detecting the different reasons for the event being fired. (If this is important to your logic)