here is the code
String DateOfBirth[]=strDOB.split("/");
Date dateOfBirth = new Date();
dateOfBirth.setYear(Integer.parseInt(DateOfBirth[2].trim()));
dateOfBirth.setMonth(Integer.parseInt(DateOfBirth[1].trim()));
dateOfBirth.setDate(Integer.parseInt(DateOfBirth[0].trim()));
java.text.SimpleDateFormat DateFormat = new java.text.SimpleDateFormat("yyyy-MM-dd HH:mm:ss");
strDOB = DateFormat.format(dateOfBirth);
DBProcess.QueryExecuter("INSERT INTO patients(patient_id,first_name,last_name,middle_name,birth_dt) VALUES (\""+Double.parseDouble(strPatientID.trim())+"\",\""+strFirstname+"\",\""+strLastname+"\",\""+strMiddlename+"\",\""+strDOB +"\");");