I am not sure what your are wanting is possible.
Try this: go into MS access and create new property that is the count of controls on the form. In VBA, me.Countrols.Count. Open the form using Access automation. OnFOrmLoad() write the number of controls to text file along with name of the form and then close the form.
Afterwards open the text file in VB.net. It is indirect but it would work.
How To Automate Microsoft Access From Visual Basic .NET
To automate:
Dim oAccess As Access.Application
' Start a new instance of Access for Automation:
oAccess = New Access.ApplicationClass()
' Open a database in exclusive mode:
oAccess.OpenCurrentDatabase(filepath:="c:\mydb.mdb", Exclusive:=True)
oAccess.DoCmd.OpenForm(FormName:="Employees")