Since fadeOut() finishes by hiding the target elements, chances are your #main will be completely hidden by the time your new data is loaded, rendering any animation of height invisible, and therefore pointless.
But you could just use something like $('#main').show(400)
which will animate the element from a size of (0,0) and opacity of 0 to whatever size is allowed by the container and contents and a fully-visible opacity of 1 (and run these animations in parallel, making both of them visible).
But assuming you do care more about animating the height than you do about fading, you still have a problem: by the time load() calls its callback, the height of the target element(s) will already be the height of the content (or as close as possible to it). So animating won't do anything.
I posted a plugin on a previous question that will do what you want, but you'll need to use $.get() instead of load():
$.get(url, function(data) {
$('#main').showHtml(data);
});
...where showHtml is defined as:
// Animates the dimensional changes resulting from altering element contents
// Usage examples:
// $("#myElement").showHtml("new HTML contents");
// $("div").showHtml("new HTML contents", 400);
// $(".className").showHtml("new HTML contents", 400,
// function() {/* on completion */});
(function($)
{
$.fn.showHtml = function(html, speed, callback)
{
return this.each(function()
{
// The element to be modified
var el = $(this);
// Preserve the original values of width and height - they'll need
// to be modified during the animation, but can be restored once
// the animation has completed.
var finish = {width: this.style.width, height: this.style.height};
// The original width and height represented as pixel values.
// These will only be the same as `finish` if this element had its
// dimensions specified explicitly and in pixels. Of course, if that
// was done then this entire routine is pointless, as the dimensions
// won't change when the content is changed.
var cur = {width: el.width()+'px', height: el.height()+'px'};
// Modify the element's contents. Element will resize.
el.html(html);
// Capture the final dimensions of the element
// (with initial style settings still in effect)
var next = {width: el.width()+'px', height: el.height()+'px'};
el .css(cur) // restore initial dimensions
.animate(next, speed, function() // animate to final dimensions
{
el.css(finish); // restore initial style settings
if ( $.isFunction(callback) ) callback();
});
});
};
})(jQuery);