This can be done in SQL Server 2005 and above using Common Table Expressions (CTEs). Here is a great link from MSDN describing recursive queries: Recursive Queries Using Common Table Expressions
Here is an example:
If you imagine a hierarchical line of people, this query will let you see the complete line of any person AND calculates their place in the hierarchy. It can be modified to find any child relationship.
Instead of the ID of the person, you swap in the ID of the row you are using as your parent.
--Create table of dummy data
create table #person (
personID integer IDENTITY(1,1) NOT NULL,
name varchar(255) not null,
dob date,
father integer
);
INSERT INTO #person(name,dob,father)Values('Pops','1900/1/1',NULL);
INSERT INTO #person(name,dob,father)Values('Grandma','1903/2/4',null);
INSERT INTO #person(name,dob,father)Values('Dad','1925/4/2',1);
INSERT INTO #person(name,dob,father)Values('Uncle Kev','1927/3/3',1);
INSERT INTO #person(name,dob,father)Values('Cuz Dave','1953/7/8',4);
INSERT INTO #person(name,dob,father)Values('Billy','1954/8/1',3);
DECLARE @OldestPerson INT;
SET @OldestPerson = 1; -- Set this value to the ID of the oldest person in the family
WITH PersonHierarchy (personID,Name,dob,father, HierarchyLevel) AS
(
SELECT
personID
,Name
,dob
,father,
1 as HierarchyLevel
FROM #person
WHERE personID = @OldestPerson
UNION ALL
SELECT
e.personID,
e.Name,
e.dob,
e.father,
eh.HierarchyLevel + 1 AS HierarchyLevel
FROM #person e
INNER JOIN PersonHierarchy eh ON
e.father = eh.personID
)
SELECT *
FROM PersonHierarchy
ORDER BY HierarchyLevel, father;
DROP TABLE #person;