<form name="myForm">
<button onfocus="this.style.width = '200px'; this.style.height = '200px';">myButton</button>
<button>myOtherButton</button>
</form>
I imagine after implementing this, you will also want to restore the size after the focus leaves.
<button onfocus="this.style.width = '200px'; this.style.height = '200px';" onblur="this.style.width = this.style.height = '';">myButton</button>
If you're doing much more than that, I would recommend separating this code into functions and making better JavaScript design decisions.