With the assumption that this is MS SQL server, you probably want UPDLOCK
, possibly combined with ROWLOCK
(Table hints). I'm having trouble finding a decent article which describes the theory, but here is quick example:
SELECT id From mytable WHERE id = 1 WITH (ROWLOCK, UPDLOCK)
This statement will place an update lock on the row for the duration of the transaction (so it is important to be aware of when the transaction will end). As update locks are incompatible with exclusive locks (required to update records), this will prevent anyone from updating this record until the transaction has ended.
Note that other processes attempting to modify this record will be blocked until the transaction completes, however will continue with whatever write operation they requested once the transaction has ended (unless they are timed out or killed off as a deadlocked process). If you wish to prevent this then your other processes need to use additional hints in order to either abort if an incompatible lock is detected, or skip the record if it has changed.
Also, You should not use this method to lock records while waiting for user input. If this is your intention then you should add some sort of "being modified" column to your table instead.
The SQL server locking mechanisms are really only suited for use to preserve data integrity / preventing deadlocks - transactions should generally be kept as short as possible and should certainly not be maintained while waiting for user input.