TCP/IP connections KeepAlives are specified to be at least once every two hours: http://tools.ietf.org/html/rfc1122#page-101. The problem is this was written in 1989 and is concerned about the cost of sending the extra KeepAlive packet! Yet it still is the default time most OS's in accordance with the spec send out KeepAlives down a connected socket after a period of inactivity! Of course nowadays most connections timeout way before that if inactive, and if connected to a peer over the Internet connections die without your knowledge way before that (despite setting ones timeout higher than that - I suspect because router tables in between don't bother keeping it alive - I always wondered where the leaked last message goes... UPDATE: The reason for this is 'routers' that may be at your or the remote hosts end are 'stateful' and connection aware and drop the connection after some period of time of inactivity - the routers that your go through over the Internet cannot drop your connection - they they dont care - the packet is just send where it has to go). So I have seen 2 common solutions to keeping ones connection alive over the Internet:
1) Disregard (EDIT: as has been pointed out to me this is not disregarding the spec it is just changing the default) the spec and change your system wide KeepAlive interval to lower than 2 hours, or 2) implement your own 'KeepAlive' system polling the peer periodically.
Either way; what is a suitable period (of inactivity at which to send your KeepAlive)? I have seen everything from 1 second to the default 2 hours. It seems the number is sucked out of thumbs... If I have a client application connecting from potentially anywhere in the world what is safe and reasonable period (I want a single persistent connection)? Connecting to a peer many hops away on the other side of the world over the Internet the connection dies on 301 seconds (though you only know about it when you try send something) so setting the period to 300 seconds seems to be the magic number - I get the KeepAlive 1 second before death - this interval has never failed me.. but is it safe?
EDIT: This particular connection im implementing in C# 3.0 so code in that welcome.