Some regex engines support this, some don't. This site says that Perl, Python, PCRE (and thus PHP), and .NET support it, all with slightly different syntax:
+--------+----------------------------+----------------------+------------------+
| Engine | Syntax | Backreference | Variable |
+--------+----------------------------+----------------------+------------------+
| Perl | (?<name>...), (?'name'...) | \k<name>, \k'name' | %+{name} |
| | (?P<name>...) | \g{name}, (?&name)* | |
| | | (?P>name)* | |
+--------+----------------------------+----------------------+------------------+
| Python | (?P<name>...) | (?P=name), \g<name> | m.group('name') |
+--------+----------------------------+----------------------+------------------+
| .NET | (?<name>...), (?'name'...) | \k<name>, \k'name' | m.Groups['name'] |
+--------+----------------------------+----------------------+------------------+
| PCRE | (?<name>...), (?'name'...) | \k<name>, \k'name' | Depends on host |
| | (?P<name>...) | \g{name}, \g<name>* | language. |
| | | \g'name'*, (?&name)* | |
| | | (?P>name)* | |
+--------+----------------------------+----------------------+------------------+
This is not a complete list, but it's what I could find. If you know more flavors, add them! The backreference forms with a *
are those which are "recursive" as opposed to just a back-reference; I believe this means they match the pattern again, not what was matched by the pattern. Also, I arrived at this by reading the docs, but there could well be errors—this includes some languages I've never used and some features I've never used. Let me know if something's wrong.