I have a standard comment_id/comment_parent_id setup on my mysql comments table (with a created timestamp).
My question is what is the least process intensive query to get all NEW replies on a user's comment? Just like with the commenting systems that use a checkbox to email replies to your comment?
Do you cookie a timestamp for last login? Update a last login table?
I guess I'm looking to understand how to retrieve the starting point so I can alert users of replies to their replies.
Sorry if my explanation is cryptic.