Whichever you do this, you're going to have to check the values during your save process, and there's always the potential for things to go wrong (namely the user wants to set their password to your "pretend" string).
If you're using and input of type="password" rather than a type="text", it shouldn't matter what text you add as the browser will hide it for you, so just add a known, but unlikely to be used string (i.e. if you have invalid characters, use them, or start it #0# or something).
Next I would set this default value using JavaScript - this way if the user has JavaScript disabled, and your onFocus event doesn't run, it doesn't matter, as there's nothing to clear.
Finally, in your Save method, check for the existance of your known string in the password boxes, and if it's there, you know to ignore the value, and if the fields are blank, and the current password is also blank, then nothing will have changed.