So, I'm using SQL Server Management Studio Express,it has been working not bad so far, ignoring some of the weirdness.
But I just happened to get a whole shwack of data deleted when I happened to delete a row in a parent table. So I thought I must have cascade deletes enabled in this relationship. But, how does one determine this?? If you double click a relationship in the DB Diagram, your only option is Delete, and the tooltip only shows you the FK relationship name.
This fellow had the same problem as me: http://social.msdn.microsoft.com/forums/en-US/sqldatabaseengine/thread/1f9c1e8f-b719-476d-828e-91ac6722096a/
So, am I missing something, or is this another situation where a software company deliberately does a half assed job? I have an MSDN ultra (or whatever the highest level is) license, so will that be better, or, is there a 3rd party tool one can use??